Joining us on the podcast this week is Ruth Everhart, author of the book 'The #MeToo Reckoning'. We hope you find today's podcast a helpful step in the larger conversation in how we need to handle and address sexual assault situations in the church.Links to things mentioned: Last spring we had a number of posts and podcasts on the problem with the gatekeeping message--namely that it can hinder arousal. Some of them are: Arousal: The missing piece podcast; And the let's bring back making out post.Why Unconditional Respect isn't a thing: Our podcast where we looked at the survey question that was used to justify the claim that men choose respect while women choose love. 9 Signs of Grooming Behaviour you need to understandRuth Everhart's post on The #MeToo Reckoning and Ruth Everhart's book The #MeToo ReckoningThe Blog: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com Follow Sheila on Instagram: @sheilagregoire https://instagram.com/sheilagregoireThe Great Sex Rescue (pre-order!): https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827