Bonus: Get Off the Apps! With Jon Birger

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Bonus: Get Off the Apps! With Jon Birger

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Meredith chats with business writer and journalist Jon Birger about why he thinks we should get off the apps and seek connection in other ways. Birger is the author of the books Date-Onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game and Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge. Email us at loveletters@boston.com.

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GLD 061 - Where All The Good Men Are: Brian and The Debate Team take a deep dive into dating demographics to reveal why there are more good men than at any time in history, the truth about statistics, where to go to find your mate, the best way to meet your best match, the real reason... by The Great Love Debate with Brian Howie
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AlphaGO, Two Triangles, and your Political Intuitions Walk into a Bar with Jordan Ellenberg by The Decision Corner
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258: Jon Birger, Author of DATE-ONOMICS & Journalist: Today’s guest is someone for whom I had the privilege of working when I was first in New York City working as a junior reporter at Money Magazine, and there my guest Jon Birger was a senior writer. And so it is with great pleasure that I... by So Money with Farnoosh Torabi
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S6E7: These Rules Are Meant for Breakin': Meredith sits down with two smart people who have spent a lot of time studying relationships – how we make them, what we look for in other people, and the “rules” that color these big decisions. Lamont White is a dating coach and matchmaker. Angela Bahns is a social psychologist whose work raises an important question: Is it actually true that opposites attract? Email us at loveletters@boston.com. by Love Letters
30 min listen
SPS 050: How To Land Sports Teams & Corporate Consulting Clients From A Book with Jon Gordon (Lessons Learned From 20 Books & 2M+ copies sold): Jon Gordon, an author of 20 books, speaker, and consultant, comes on the show today. His clients include Los Angeles Dodgers, Miami Heat, and Publix. Over his career, he has used books for his business marketing. Books have also been a big driver for... by Self Publishing School: How To Write A Book That Grows Your Impact, Income, And Business
47 min listen
LOCKED ON LAKERS -- 12/7/18 -- The Lakers and LeBron James are developing an identity together: To send everyone off into the weekend, Pete and I discuss LeBron James' MVP case, the identity he and the Lakers are building, Brandon Ingram's injury and what it might mean beyond however long he's out and some shoutouts to end on a high note. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices by Locked On Lakers - Daily Podcast On The Los Angeles Lakers
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021: Improve Your Job Search with JT O’Donnell from Work It Daily: According to JT O’Donnell, we’re pretty bad at job searching. After all, we aren’t in the business of finding jobs; our skills sets are DOING them. So, if and when you need to change employers, outside advice is invaluable. Today, Laurie and JT... by Punk Rock HR
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Jon Ferrara of Nimble by CRM Talk
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LeBron James is a Laker and Will Michael Cohen Flip? by The Daily Dive
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Kim Scott on Radical Respect by Hello Monday with Jessi Hempel
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S2E4: What Fresh Hell Is This?: Dating can feel like a second full-time job. You feel like you have to constantly check the apps, update your profiles, and swipe on new faces, lest you miss out on something. And that’s all before you actually go on any dates. In this episode, Meredith Goldstein looks at the epidemic of dating fatigue. She talks to comedian Lane Moore, the brains behind the show “Tinder Live” and the author of “How To Be Alone,” and hits the bar with Erin, the woman Love Letters is following all season. Email us at loveletters@boston.com. by Love Letters
24 min listen
'Good Bot, Bad Bot': Episode V: In the fifth episode of Endless Thread's series "Good Bot, Bad Bot," Ben Brock Johnson and Nora Saks dive into the ways AI is changing modern love and online dating. by Short Run
37 min listen
Wrote the book on LinkedIn: Brenda Bernstein resume expert from the essayexpert.com by The Break - with Michael Gardon
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INTP Employee with ESTJ boss: INTP and ESTJ types both prefer logical communication over expressing emotions, but from a Myers-Briggs perspective, this may be where the similarities end. That doesn't mean that these two can't work together effectively. Tune in for strategies both... by Myers-Briggs® Question Corner
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EP 198 Cory Doctorow on Seizing the Means of Computation: . by The Jim Rutt Show
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S2 EP7: Forget Inbox Zero: In this season of giving thanks, we are grateful for the technology that keeps on giving: email. And we thank all the ZigZag listeners who've sent voice memos, encouragement, love and constructive criticism via email. by ZigZag
22 min listen
#448 - Jon Birger - Are Women In Charge Of The Dating Market?: Jon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer, a contributor to Fortune, a dating expert and an author. Typically men are the sexual protagonists. They're the ones who make the first move, they're the ones who come up with cheesy chat-up lines and... by Modern Wisdom
84 min listen
How I Got There with JT McCormick by Love in Action
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