#49. How do I sustain a long distance relationship over the course of 3 years? How do I get myself excited for a move to a big city? He’s a really nice guy, but I’m not attracted to him… is that superficial? Payton answers these questions in today’s episode of ASK P, a monthly advice column series.    FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8  → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57  → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5   Produced by Dear Media