MARRIAGE: Holding Onto Old Hurts

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MARRIAGE: Holding Onto Old Hurts

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Apr 19, 2021

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Have you ever found yourself bringing up something hurtful that your spouse did 20 YEARS AGO?! I know I have. Today we are answering a listener question all about the destructive impacts of holding onto old hurts LONG after they have happened! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage

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Apr 19, 2021

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A podcast about real stories of why marriages really succeed and fail hosted by Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Seth Studley, and his wife Melanie.

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