Do you feel like your ex isn’t who you thought they were? Maybe they said they wanted children and to get married and now after years of dating they no longer want that. Or maybe they’ve had a hidden life the entire time you’ve dated. Either way - being stuck on how he wasn’t who you thought he was is super frustrating.  In today’s episode: Learn why we get super fixated on who our ex was or wasn’t after a breakup Understand what we can do about it Become who you want to be regardless of who your ex is