I'd need a time machine to be able to tell for sure, but I think that Paul Theroux's "The Great Railway Bazaar" was probably the very first travel narrative book I ever read. It shaped a lot about what I thought about travel - that you should talk to local people, that you should travel slowly, alone where possible, and not in a group of tourists, for sure - and it gave me quite an obsession with trains and the Trans-Siberian railway in particular.
So when I was offered the chance to interview Paul Theroux - of course, I said yes! Episode 214 is the first half of this interview - Paul was a very generous interviewee, and our chat is too long to publish in a regular episode, so you'll find the rest in Episode 215. 
In this half, our chat is wide-ranging and includes leaning languages, ways to get to know the locals, and the pleasure of teaching and studying in a foreign country - a very sneaky way to properly get to know a place!
Links:

The Great Railway Bazaar - https://amzn.to/35Ca6QB 
The Tao of Travel - https://amzn.to/3f5NZVN
On the Plain of Snakes - https://amzn.to/3e7Jg58
The Kingdom by the Sea - https://amzn.to/35z5o6j 
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Show notes: https://notaballerina.com/214
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