Ep 161: Polyamory, Kink, & Sex Ed with Dirty Lola. My guest is Dirty Lola and I'm excited to share her with you! She's a sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. She's a sex-positive individual who openly shares about her personal and sex life. She recently was on the Netflix documentary "The Principles of Pleasure" so check out this show! Connect with Lola at her website: https://www.dirtylola.co/ and her podcast https://www.sexedagogo.com/ Sex Ed & Toys:Lola shares about sex education and how we should be doing it. She and I discuss the value of sex toys and break the negative falsehoods around using them. We discuss the benefits of using sex toys both solo and in a relationship/partnership.  She talks about the lack of knowledge in the world of the anatomy of the clitoris and how clit owners benefit from sex toy usage. Kink:Dirty Lola shares information for those interested in kink, how to get started, how to find it, and how best to proceed into such a way of life. She shares very helpful books (affiliate): The New Topping Book https://amzn.to/3A3roGa and The New Bottoming Book https://amzn.to/3OHMmOX (Another very popular book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton is The Ethical Slut https://amzn.to/3ncHoOj ) Lola instructs us to learn first before we just venture into the world of kink. Be safe. Arm yourself with knowledge. Polyamory:Lola shares with us her journey to a poly life. It's a part of her sexual identity. She explains the difference of being open versus being poly, and types of relationships therein. She touches on the difference between the poly life and swinging as well. Other books Lola recommended:Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage https://amzn.to/3OGiCliSacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond https://amzn.to/3QJDQAKConnect with the podcast host Ruan Willow here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowRuan's new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 https://books2read.com/u/medqrVMy podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lSmart Passive Income PodcastWeekly interviews, strategy, and advice for building your online business the smart way.Listen on: Apple Podcasts   SpotifyBuzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show