Have you been comparing yourself to your partner’s exes? Are you finding yourself dealing with insecurity and lack of self-esteem and don’t know how to overcome them? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore what to do when you’re comparing yourself to your partner’s exes. They discuss how insecurity may be the root cause of the problem, what really matters in your relationship, how to avoid jealousy, and the importance of fully understanding your emotions.   SHOW NOTES: Comparing | Lisa and Tom discuss constantly comparing yourself to your partner’s ex. [0:17] Insecurity | Tom discusses why you shouldn’t give in to your insecurities. [2:21] What Matters | Tom shares the only thing that should matter in any relationship. [3:21] I Wonder Why? | Lisa shares the importance of knowing your feelings. [7:00]   QUOTES: “What moves you towards your goal? And if your goal is to have a thriving relationship, then comparing yourself endlessly to the exes is not a good look.” [2:10] “The only thing that lasts in a relationship is, “How do you make me feel about myself when I’m with you?” Do I feel better about myself when I’m with you?…” [3:21] “Jealousy doesn’t serve me. Jealousy doesn’t serve our relationship. It’s never going to bring us closer.” [9:37]   FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL   FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0