Feminist Lizzie is filling in for Naz this week. The girls discuss the differences between the male and female gaze in movies and between the sexes. They share some songs they love by fictional bands from their favorite movies. (If your answer is anything other than "That Thing You Do" or "Eye to Eye" from A Goofy Movie, what are we even doing here?) They talk about the quintessential fall vibes that are Meg Ryan, Taylor swift and the Rom Com master, Helen Hunt. Lizzie breaks down all the Internet speculation about Taylor's upcoming album Midnights and tries to catch Ashley up on all the celebrity gossip she's missing out on these days. They also go around and reminisce on sex scenes that scarred them or aroused them (and sometimes both) in their youth. Betterhelp is a sponsor of I Don't Get It. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/getit today to get 10% off your first month! Get 15% off plus free shipping on your first order at https://gladskin.com/getit Join the conversation at https://nutrafol.com/shedthesilence Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/getit and download the Zocdoc app for FREE! More podcasts at WAVE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/artist/wave-podcast-network/1437831426