How to become more by increasing what you expect from yourself each day. On today’s episode Russell tells a story about a guy from some Tony Robbins’ events and why he expected more from himself and how that made his story is so inspiring. He also talks about how wresting helped Russell expect more from himself. Here are 3 cool things to listen for in this episode: People expect a lot of you, but what do you expect from yourself? Why the more you expect out of yourself, the more successful you will be. Why letting yourself off the hook is not always a good idea. So listen below to find out why you should expect more out of yourself in order to be successful. ---Transcript--- Hey everyone, this is Russell Brunson and welcome to a snowy marketing in your car. All right, all right, so we’ve got snow out here in Boise Idaho and it’s beautiful. It’s supposed to snow for the next three days, so I’m hoping we just get dumped on because it would be really fun to take a day or two off with the kids and just do snowball fights, and snow forts, and all of that fun stuff. Cross your fingers that we get dumped on for a little bit here. I just wanted to jump in real quick because I just listened to a podcast and someone said something and it sparked something and I wanted to jump in here. It has to do with what you expect from yourself. We have all sorts of people in our lives that have expectations on us, right? Our wives expect us to do things, our kids, our co-workers, our employees, our parents, our friends, our brothers and sisters, everyone expects things out of us, right? That’s one thing. I’m curious, what do you expect out of yourself? We were at a Tony Robins event and if you’ve ever been to UPW there’s this little, not little. There’s this guy, he’s a little shorter, but like a stocky, bald dude, who’s always on Toby Robins security, and at every UPW. If you ever go you’ll see him, he’s usually one of front guys in the front. He’s always standing there flexing, making sure nobody gets to Tony. Anyway, the last day when Tony sells Business Mastery, usually this guy will get up and tell the story, and how basically when he was growing up … I can’t remember how bad his life was but he went to a Tony Robins event, it changed him. He started just going to every Tony Robins event and just trying to just be there all the time, and be around it, and talked about how it changed his life from being this homeless kid to being a multi millionaire, and all of these things, it was just a really inspiring story. Afterwards we pulled him aside and we were just talking to him, me and four or five of our friends, we were just talking to him and the dude was like oh, so motivational, I just wanted to hire him just to come yell at me once a week. He was talking, and one thing he said that was interesting is we asked like, “What made the difference. Why do you come and work for Tony for free five times a year, and why do you do all of this stuff?” He said, “Where I grew up from nobody expected much from me, so I didn’t do much. When I came here,” he’s like, “Everybody expected a lot out of me.” He’s like, “The reason why I’m so successful now, I expect more out of myself than anyone can imagine.” I remember thinking about that like, that’s the driving force. What do you expect out of yourself? You think about why we get depressed in life, or why we have issues, or whatever it might be, I think it’s usually because we expect something out of ourselves and we don’t do it. I look at the things in my life that I really struggle with and that cause me pain, and almost all of them are associated with this is what I expect from myself, and this is what I’m doing. It’s like when you were a kid and your dad is … you do something really, really bad and you’re expecting him to beat you and you’re preparing for a whooping, and then he comes in and he just looks at you and shakes his head and says, “I expected a lot more out of you,” and walks away. You’re like