While narcissists can be openly abusive, especially in episodes of conflict, there are many ways that they will abuse you silently. Dr. Les Carter discusses this pattern with author and therapist, Shannon Thomas, whose book Healing From Hidden Abuse highlights ways to protect yourself from the narcissist's schemes.
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