I did a podcast a couple of years back called “When One Person Wants to Grow”. In it, I talked about what to do when one person in the relationship is more keen on growth and healing, and the other is not. In Anami Land, a conscious, gourmet sex relationship requires both people to be actively participating. It doesn’t work if one person is consistently putting in more effort than the other. The magic only happens when both people dive deep and commit to 150% effort. I highly recommend listening to the “When One Person Wants to Grow” episode. Consider this a follow up. Let's say you tried what I suggested in that episode and your partner is still consistently uninterested in growing with you and cockblocks you and your relationship. Here is my straight Anami-style talk about what I suggest. In this episode:
At what point do you call it quits in a relationship
What is an acceptable pace to move and grow at
The lie of limbo 
The impact of stagnation on your overall life 
What it looks and feels like in a relationship where both people are committed to growth. Hint: it’s sheer jubilation and nothing less.