We have a tendency to spend too much time talking about bad calls after a match. Even if they happened at big moments in the match, how did you lose all the other points? How did you get down 5-4 40-30 match point in the third set anyway? How did you lose a set prior to that?
We need to focus on biggest reason you lost. Was it the 36 forehand unforced errors? Or the 14 doubles faults? 
Let's put our attention there instead of the 4 or 5 bad calls you THINK went against you.

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