This week, Kate talks about the controversial list of 141 rules The Cut/NY Mag came out with that were positioned as a revised etiquette guide for modern society. First, she dives into some of the histories of western etiquette, snorkels Emily Post & the gang, reflects on her time in cotillion, learning to be ‘ladylike’ in pop culture, and her issues with classism and ‘old vs. new money’ convos. She then ventures into some of her takes on the list and peppers in listener emails about their responses to the article and shares additional rules they’d implement in their personal etiquette guides. Enjoy!Original article: https://www.thecut.com/article/tipping-rules-etiquette-rules.htmlSUPPORT OUR SPONSORSRight now, BÉIS is offering our listeners 15% off your first purchase by visiting BEISTRAVEL.com/BETHEREINFIVECozy Earth provided an exclusive offer for my listener’s today. 35% off site wide when you use the code “BETHEREINFIVE” at cozyearth.comHelix is offering 20% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows for our listeners! Go to HelixSleep.com/BeThereInFive and use code HELIXPARTNER. This is their best offer yet and it won’t last long! With Helix, better sleep starts nowFind your forever pieces @jennikayne and get 15% off with promo code BETHEREINFIVE at jennikayne.com/BETHEREINFIVE! #jennikaynepartner