Ep 67: Discovering Your Sexual Narrative with Devin Green

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Ep 67: Discovering Your Sexual Narrative with Devin Green

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Nov 25, 2022

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Devin Green, APCC, is a sex therapist and former dominatrix. In this episode, we discuss sex work, shame, the dynamics of queer vs. straight sex, and how to define your own sexual narrative.

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Nov 25, 2022

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Ep 67: Discovering Your Sexual Narrative with Devin Green

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