Topics: Victim mentality, why you lose your power in relationships, drama cycles, radical self-responsibility, self-ownership, healthy relationships, secure attachment, releasing anger & resentment, boundaries, ending blameCue that moment when you realise that you're actually the problem ***This one ain't for the faint-hearted.If you're noticing the similarities in the way your relationships play (with friends, family, money & lovers) then YOU'RE the common denominator and this is your opportunity to wake up and clean up your side of the street.Look, blaming the other person is only serving one thing; your anger & pain. And, that is an important part of the process, but not at the expense of your power.If you're constantly a victim of "their" actions, then you're giving away your power and keeping yourself stuck in some pretty toxic patterning.I know. Because I've done it A LOT in my lifetime.And owning up to my 50% has allowed me to believe in and trust myself more than ever before.This episode is designed to spark self-awareness, everyone is unique and I recommend you see a professional to unpack how some of these tendencies may be playing out in your life.Blessings xWork with Laura Ellen:Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/lauraellen/discoverySELF SOURCED: www.laura-ellen.com/self-sourcedSensual Sex: www.laura-ellen.com/ss-mailing-listLingam Loving: www.laura-ellen.com/lingam-lovingYUM RETREAT:Wānaka 17th-21st Sept.www.laura-ellen.com/yumDiscover DIY Online Courses:Website: www.laura-ellen.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/_laura_ellenDonate to The Sexual Wellness Podcast:https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KJLSUE4X7CCF8If you’re loving the show and are excited to get this content in the ears of those who need it most, you can offer a one-off or monthly donation. Never necessary, always appreciated.