In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m 38 and have finally met a nice guy. I really like him, but the sex is average at best. We’ve only been seeing each other for two months and the sex is like the sex you have two years in. It’s okay, but the lust and spark isn’t there. Is this something you can fix?2) My new boyfriend’s penis is bent, a bit like a banana. Is this anything to worry about? He doesn’t seem worried by it, and it’s not affecting his performance.3) I’m newly divorced after the dullest marriage in history. I’m 48 and finally free to be able to explore the world and sex. I have no intention of settling down with anyone for a very long time, but a friend I have always found hot (he’s single) has a proposition. He wants us to be friends with benefits. What’s your view on this? He’s not a close friend so if it all went wrong and I lost a friend, I wouldn’t be too worried.To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelUWant a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.