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LIAM 061 – The Prison of Perfectionism

LIAM 061 – The Prison of Perfectionism

FromLife Is A Marathon


LIAM 061 – The Prison of Perfectionism

FromLife Is A Marathon

ratings:
Length:
42 minutes
Released:
Feb 3, 2015
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

I meet so many people who are living in prison. It's a prison of their own making. It's the prison of perfectionism. Listen as I talk about the prison, how we put ourselves in it, and how to set yourself free:

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Show Outline:

In my coaching practice, there's something I encounter too frequently--people in the prison of perfectionism.
Writers who won't write, musicians who won't record, artists who won't draw or paint--or, at least, won't show their work to other people.
We believe our work must be perfect before we can show it to anyone.

The blog post
The business article
The novel
The painting
The software project
The simple journal or diary entry
The dream of an amazing life


It's not the fear of failure, it's the fear of criticism

Maybe it was parents or teachers who told you it must be perfect. It's a lie. There's no such thing!
If perfection exists, there wouldn't be software upgrades, new models of cars, 2nd editions of books
I could have just recorded 1 podcast, instead of 61 and counting until I get it right!


Imperfect work shared will change more lives than perfect work kept hidden!
My software development taught me: create a minimally viable product, launch, then improve
Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can. – Arthur Ashe
Set yourself up for victory, not failure.

Build momentum
Get feedback
Change course as needed


Stop waiting for all of the conditions to be right, all the lights to be green, all thoughts to be organized

You don't need more time, you don't need more money, you don't need more ideas
Just start!
Get feedback, make improvements along the way
Ms. Frizzle (The Magic School Bus): Take chances, make mistakes, get messy!


In my experience as a writer, speaker, musician--the work I thought was the most flawed is often the work that deeply touches someone's life. You have the ability to change the entire world--for one person!
Enjoy the process. Have fun!!
Put yourself on parole! Swing the gates wide! Set yourself free from the prison of perfectionism!

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Released:
Feb 3, 2015
Format:
Podcast episode

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The Life is a Marathon show gives you inspiration, motivation, and resources to empower you to thrive and win in the marathon we call “life!” Bruce Van Horn is a Life Coach, Mentor, Thought Leader, Best-Selling Author, Entertaining and Motivational Speaker, Dad, and Marathon runner. He brings his respected insight, wisdom, leadership, and storytelling abilities to this podcast to share with you information, tips, life-hacks, and entertaining and heart-warming stories with the goal of helping you transform your life, build your self-esteem, recognize your value to the world, and live as the fullest expression of who you were created to be. Your thinking defines who you are in every way. It shapes your self-esteem, self-image and self-worth. It also controls the way you perceive the world and how you interact with others. You can change your life by changing your thoughts. Use this podcast as your personal mentoring program as you transform your life by the renewing of your mind.