Ruan masturbates while working, but also takes breaks for dedicated self-pleasure. Sex toys exploded her pleasure life in her 40’s—not too long ago—along with her literotic revolution as an author when she started a naughty twitter and began adding meaty sex scenes to her romance novels. She tells us about discovering her body, her journey from a shame-inducing pleasure void of an upbringing to owning dozens of sex toys and proudly self-identifying as a “clit junkie.” Ruan shares details of clit mapping with her Zumio, a very precise sex toy, talks about her love of all things outdoor-sex-related, learning about microphilia and macrophilia through narrating shrinking and giantess erotica, and she and Wyoh talk about writing commissioned stories, what romance actually is, what it’s like to be endlessly full of ideas, noodling on the ways the sex acts we like don’t (or maybe in Wyoh’s case, do?!) define us, turn-on and turn-off words, wanting people to experience massive amounts of pleasure in their bodies, and dreams of sex swings.? BIO | Erotic romance author, host of the erotica fiction and sexuality podcast: Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, a voiceover artist, audiobook narrator, and sex blogger who is into power play, exhibitionism, and outdoor sex.? LINKS |  Ruan Willow stuff: https://linktr.ee/ruanwillow + Wyoh stuff: wyohlee.com/links ?PRIVATE STUFF \ EXCLUSIVE patron-only updates, Wyoh’s private photo gallery, and a community discord of sexy stories & pics — all for the price of a fancy coffee. Sign up here: patreon.com/wyohlee ?️BE A GUEST | Want to be on the show? Visit sexstoriespodcast.com to give me a little overview of your sex life so we can spread ripples of love and learn together!?RECORD A SEX STORY QUICKIE SOLO | Leave a voicemail by calling 323.364.9369 or record up to five minutes at sexstoriespodcast.com.? PRIVATE CALL | It won’t be recorded, aired or shared, like a mini-sex stories episode for just you and me. Pick your time here: ? wyohlee.com/call  ?wyohlee.com/video ?????? REMEMBER TO SHARE SEX STORIES!!!!!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-stories/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy