Are you ready to break free from the chains of victimhood and embrace empowerment? Join Jayson and Ellen in this episode as they dive deep into the complexities of fault versus responsibility. They also discuss the struggle between victimhood and authorship. Explore empowering perspectives, real-life stories, and learn how to transform challenges into personal growth opportunities. You won't want to miss this as they challenge the norms compassionately, fostering self-reflection and self-discovery without blame. Find out what got Ellen saying "Honey, We Should Have Talked Before You Posted.” Timestamps: 0:53 - Fault vs. responsibility 3:25 - Context 7:00 - Why do people get attached to their victim stance? 16:51 - Finding your part in painful experiences 27:48 - Learning about yourself through painful experiences 32:43 - When to take responsibility 35:23 - Why does resilience vary between people? 43:00 - What you gain by transcending your pain 45:43 - Dealing with victim dynamics as a coach or a therapist 51:20 - How Jayson deals with his victim consciousness 54:09 - Personal development vs. forgiveness 58:58 - Moving from victim to author Links: Apply to Relationship Coach Training Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook