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Guilt and Shame: The Ugly Cousins Keeping You From Advocating for Yourself
FromSimply Worth It: Physician Negotiations with Dr. Linda Street
Guilt and Shame: The Ugly Cousins Keeping You From Advocating for Yourself
FromSimply Worth It: Physician Negotiations with Dr. Linda Street
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Length:
14 minutes
Released:
Aug 18, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
Guilt and shame aren’t emotions we typically associate with our negotiations, but these ugly cousins actually show up all over the place. For starters, most of us feel guilty about asking for what we want, but that’s not the only way it manifests. The other way these emotions creep in is more insidious but just as destructive. When we realize we didn’t adequately advocate for ourselves in the past, we can spiral into guilt and shame very easily. How do we overcome these emotions so we can get to a state that moves us forward? In this episode, I talk about how guilt and shame hinder our success in a negotiation. Three Things You’ll Learn In This Episode - How guilt and shame present themselves What do you do if you notice that you’re feeling guilt and shame during your negotiation? - The danger of spiraling into indulgent emotions Can guilt and shame make us blind to the places we should rightfully advocate for ourselves? - How to cut short the spiral of guilt and shame How do we nip guilt and shame in the bud before it makes an otherwise great opportunity unsalvageable?
Released:
Aug 18, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode
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Make It Happen: How to Set Yourself Up For Success in Negotiation: In the process of negotiating a package that reflects your worth and value, there are 3 things that matter - mindset, market and make it happen. Step 3 is where the magic comes together. This is where we do the work to make a ... by Simply Worth It: Physician Negotiations with Dr. Linda Street