Growing up, I was no stranger to criticism. Now, as an adult, I can't help but notice its lingering effects on my self-esteem, my internal narrative, and my motivation. For better or worse, that criticism has shaped me. In this episode, we explore how a critical environment can influence marriages and parenting. We unpack the early warning signs that criticism could signal in marriages, and draw parallels with our relationships with our children.Moving into the second half, we shift our focus to communication with our children. The weight of criticism is heavy on their growing shoulders. It can knock their self-esteem down, and shape their inner voice, sometimes in damaging ways. It's a balance we have to strike - maintaining firmness without sacrificing warmth and sensitivity. Listen in as we delve into the power and potential of language. We discuss how our words can inspire our children, rather than criticize them, and how we can foster their growth, instead of stifling it. This episode is not just about the impact of criticism; it's a conversation about resilience, nurturing positive relationships, and the immeasurable power we hold as parents.Curious Neuron Podcast Episode about negotiation: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/curious-neuron/id1440533170?i=1000618304723Sources: Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman HEREParental behavioural control in adolescence: How does it affect self-esteem and self-criticism? HEREHow to Make Repair Attempts So Your Partner Feels Loved HEREParents’ Use of Praise and Criticism in a Sample of Young Children Seeking Mental Health Services HEREFamily Emotional Processes and Adolescents' Adjustment HEREPlease leave a rating for our podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! You can listen to our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Amazon Music. Let me know if you rate the podcast and I will send you a FREE Emotions Moutain PDF to help your child regulate their emotions. Email me at info@curiousneuron.comTHANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS! Get some discounts using the links belowPok Pok is a collection of digital toys that spark creativity and learningthrough open-ended play. Click on the link below to get 50% off an entire year of this amazing open-ended play app for kids!playpokpok.com/redeem/?code=50CURIOUSNEURON BetterHelp is the world’s largest therapy service, and it’s 100% online. With BetterHelp, you get the same professionalism and quality you expect from in-office therapy, but with access to a huge network of therapists, more scheduling flexibility, and a more affordable price. Click the link below to get 15% off the first month of therapy http://www.betterhelp.com/curiousneuron Wondergrade is an app for free to teach your child healthy emotional coping skills: Try the app for free below:https://wondergrade.onelink.me/4kBE/curiousneuronLastly and most importantly, thank you to our supporter the T...