DEF 06: You Can't Control Other People. You Can Only Control You.

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DEF 06: You Can't Control Other People. You Can Only Control You.

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Jan 12, 2024

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When we fail to do what we are supposed to do, it hurts us to admit it's our fault. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/jocko-podcast/exclusive-content

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Jan 12, 2024

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Titles in the series (100)

Leadership and Discipline

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26: Omaha Beach and Beyond, Surfing, Relax during BJJ, Flanking, Manipulation: 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:04:09 - "Omaha Beach and Beyond" Book Review - 1:10:28: - Internet, Onnit Stuff - 1:13:39 - Jocko Surfing - 1:23:37 - Relax During Jiu Jitsu - 1:31:36 - Tactics that deviate from The Art of War - by Jocko Podcast
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Jocko Podcast 7: Where Does Discipline Come From? Project Jaffna, Gains, & BJJ: Project Jaffna (Book). Internet questions: Gains While Getting Older, BJJ Partners, Where Does Discipline Come From? by Jocko Podcast
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Jocko Podcast 25: Jody Mitic(Pt.2)Q&A – Mental Prep, Stressful Situations, “Soldier First” Principle, Jody’s Wife: 0:00:00 - Opening & Random Talk - 0:14:51 - Mental Exercises for Stressful situations (Jody and Jocko) - 0:22:47 - Opinions of "Soldier First" Principle. - 0:33:30 - Silencing Distractions to achieve goals - 0:54:40 - Mental prep, by Jocko Podcast
119 min listen
Jocko Podcast #9: “The Motivation” – General Patton, Jiu Jitsu for Streets, Home Gyms, Hero Worship: [0:00:00] - "War as I Knew it" - General George S. Patton - INTERNET QUESTIONS [1:15:30] - 1:15:30 - Is Jiu Jitsu practical for street defense, knives, multiple attackers, etc? - Extension video From Tim Ferriss interview (Facebook) - by Jocko Podcast
134 min listen
Jocko Podcast 20: Parenting? Nature VS Nurture? Crossfit? The Jiu Jitsu Grind. Gaining Confidence.: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yNN0dnB6ivY - 0:00:00 - Opening - 16:50 - Mao Tse Tung, "On Guerrilla Warfare" (translated by Samuel B. Griffeth) - 1:01:25 - Internet/Onnit stuff - 1:04:02 - Memorable moments in Jiu Jitsu? - by Jocko Podcast
139 min listen
Jocko Podcast 3: Jocko & Echo (The Last Hundred Yards [book], Jiu Jitsu, Bosses, Failure): 0:00:00 - 1:09:19 > "The Last Hundred Yards" Book concepts review and relevance. - 1:09:19 - 1:48:24 > Internet Questions and concepts. Jiu Jitsu: Gi? Or No Gi? Micromanagers? Friends and Family? Inept Bosses? by Jocko Podcast
109 min listen
Jocko Podcast 2: Jocko & Echo (“About Face”, Mental Toughness, NewYears Resolutions?): 0:00:00 - 1:01:00 - "About Face" (David Hackworth) Book Analysis and Relevance. - 1:01:00 - 2:02:25 - Internet Questions on Mental Toughness, Balance, and New Years Resolutions. by Jocko Podcast
123 min listen
Jocko Podcast 10: Police, Cussing, and STRESS–Deal with It, USE IT: 0:00:00 - 1:02:02 - Book Review: "With the Old Breed," by Eugene Sledge - 1:04:04 - How do you balance Extreme Ownership with holding others accountable? - 1:15:41 - What are the best ways a Police Officer can mentally condition themselves for unpred... by Jocko Podcast
142 min listen
Jocko Podcast 22: Mind Control, Knowing Personalities, Greg Jackson, Over-Thinkers: 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:03:24 - Book Review, "Nothing to Envy" by Barbara Demick. - 0:59:08 - Mind Control / Mental Slavery. - 1:13:26 - Solid Internet/Onnit Stuff. - 1:17:13 - How to train BJJ when Injured. - 1:24:08 - Knowing Personality Types. by Jocko Podcast
115 min listen
48: “I Fought With Custer”, How Ego can Kill You, Avoid the Slippery Slope: 0:00:00 - Opening / "I Fought With Custer" by Charles Windolph - 1:47:17 - Thoughts and Take-aways - 1:54:51 - Cool Internet, Onnit, Amazon, JockoStore stuff - 2:10:31 - Closing Thanks by Jocko Podcast
132 min listen
Jocko Podcast 14: Guilty Pleasures, Storm of Steel book review, Training Schedules, Lazy Delegation, Evals, BUDS Filter: 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:10:00 - Storm of Steel, by Ernst Younger - Book Review - 1:02:38 - Internet Questions - 1:03:45 - Jocko and Echo's Training Schedules - 1:19:14 - Difference between lazy delegation, and decentralization. - by Jocko Podcast
131 min listen
JOCKO PODCAST 16: MACHETE SEASON, BJJ COMPETITION MINDSET, INJURIES, SCHEDULES WITH NEW KIDS, ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QorFNL9CRrU - 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:07:55 - Book review, "Machete Season: The Killers in Rawanda Speak" - 1:17:40 - Onnit / Jocko Podcast Info and Support - 1:20:55 - BJJ Competition mindset and training for Competi... by Jocko Podcast
143 min listen
41: SEAL Vet Tony Eafrati, Scariest Moments, Prepared to Die, Early Days, Transitioning to Civilian Life.: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bHdur0fmxis - 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:10:27 - Who is BTF Tony Eafrati? - 0:17:10 - Allowing Leif to Give Orders to the men... - 0:29:04 - Failures in Planning - 0:31:26 - Ups and Downs of THE BATTLEFIELD, by Jocko Podcast
132 min listen
Jocko Podcast 5: Corrective Measures, Workouts, Diet, Marcinko and Rollins: Navy SEAL, Jocko Willink and Director, Echo Charles discuss leadership corrective measures, as well as firing. Internet questions: Workout, diet, Henry Rollins, Richard Marcinko. @jockowillink @echocharles - by Jocko Podcast
109 min listen
Jocko Podcast 19: Over-Detachment, Bullying, Helping VS Enabling, Theatrics/Acting, Use of Force: 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:03:06 - Book Review. "Red Blood, Black Sand," by Chuck Tatum - 1:12:08 - Internet stuff / Onnit - 1:14:45 - Thoughts on OVER-detachment - 1:23:36 - Bullying. What if your child is being bullied? - by Jocko Podcast
141 min listen
Jocko Podcast 6: Napoleon, Aggression, Mind Control: Navy SEAL, Jocko Willink and Director, Echo Charles discuss winning tactics. Internet questions: Agression, Jiu Jitsu Academies, Character Judgement, and Mind Control. @jockowillink @echocharles by Jocko Podcast
126 min listen
28: “Steel My Soldiers’ Hearts, BJJ SOP’s, Going Back to College, Leadership, Who’s Standard to Follow: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDhikAvewEY&feature=youtu.be - 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:05:39 - Book Review, "Steel My Soldiers' Hearts", by David Hackworth - 1:24:24 - Dope Internet/Onnit Stuff - 1:27:26 - Relating SOP's and BJJ Training - by Jocko Podcast
157 min listen
64: The Value and Cost of Real Freedom. "A Debt That Cannot Be Repaid", With Andy Stumpf: 0:00:00 - Opening: "A Debt That Cannot Be Repaid" 0:08:48 - Intro to Andy Stumpf 0:18:04 - New Guy at the SEAL Teams 0:22:18 - Deployments 0:26:38 - September 11th / Learning through experience. 0:40:49 - Iraq, Afghanistan, and Getting shot. 1:00:12 -... by Jocko Podcast
117 min listen
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159 min listen
Jocko Podcast 24: Canadian Sniper-Jody Mitic, “Unflinching” Interview & Book Review: Jocko reviews excerpts from Canadian Sniper and Ottawa (CANADA) City Councilman, Jody Mitic's book, "Unflinching" with personal, in-depth commentary from Jody himself. by Jocko Podcast
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Jocko Podcast 15: Band of Brothers, Henry V, Breaking Rules, Teaching Aggression, Jocko’s BJJ Style, Lazy Habits & Procrastination: 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:04:40 - Henry the 5th - 0:51:12 - Internet Questions / Onnit - 0:56:15 - Opinions on "regular" Army Infantry - 1:01:51 - Jocko's lessons and breaking his own rules in Jiu Jitsu - by Jocko Podcast
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34: Leif Babin – Ambushed Cops, Benghazi, Tempers, SEAL Combatives: 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:10:27 - Is Darkness Taking Hold? - 0:24:18 - When to fire someone. - 0:37:32 - How Leif and Jocko met - 0:58:08 - Thoughts on Bengazi - 1:04:16 - Best BBQ in Texas? - 1:06:52 - Having Hard Conversations - by Jocko Podcast
170 min listen
33: The Killing Zone (F. Downs), Male Psyche & Fighting, BJJ Frustrations, Talking about Yourself, Fear of Failure: 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:0:3:13 - "The Killing Zone", by Frederick Downs - Book review - 1:27:48 - Internet / Onnit Stuff - 1:41:07 - Is Fighting ability the most overlooked essential stabilizer in the young male psyche? - by Jocko Podcast
168 min listen
Jocko Podcast 21: Tim Kennedy, Police Self Defense & Use of Force, Women in Special Forces, UFC, Chaos: 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:02:52 - Tim Kennedy's background / About Him - 0:14:07 - Law Enforcement/Military Self Defense Improvements? - 0:25:30 - Bayonet Training thoughts. - 0:29:26 - Can you instill the will to Kill and Die in soldiers? - by Jocko Podcast
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Jocko Podcast 8: USMC Manual(Book Review), Physical Limits, Injuries, Fear of Public Speaking: 0:00:00 - Book Review: The USMC Manual - 1:05:02 - Injury, recovery, and mentality for quicker recovery. Finding Physical limits without recovery. - 1:11:15 - What injuries has Jocko gotten? And how did he adapt? - by Jocko Podcast
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46: Jeremiah “JP” Dinnell & Jocko Discuss War, Fighting, and Life: 0:00:00 - Opening - 0:07:30 - JP Dinnell Intro - 0:19:50 - BUDS - 0:24:50 - Deployment - 1:12:13 - Loss of a Team Mate - 1:36:10 - Getting out of The Teams, MMA is a stress reliever. - 1:52:12 - Relationship rough patch. - by Jocko Podcast
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DEF 06: You Can't Control Other People. You Can Only Control You.

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