As we head into Valentines Day, Dana is tackling the sexy topic of Domestic Labor!Therapist Erin Spahr (@FeministMomTherapist on Instagram) joins the show to talk about why household tasks often fall on women, and how men and women can share the domestic work more equally.Dana and Erin also talk about:How “girl boss feminism” was sold to mothers, but didn’t deliver.Why the popular concept of "self care” is often just a proxy for meeting our basic needsThe rise of Instagram therapists, and how to use it to your benefit without getting swept into the algorithm.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.