S1:E20: Distracted Much?

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S1:E20: Distracted Much?

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Jun 23, 2021

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What's the most common concern I hear from my clients? The feeling of being distracted during sex. In this episode we go off our usual format and just chat about this important topic. Give it a listen if you or your partner get distracted easily during sex, we just have a few tips for you!

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Jun 23, 2021

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Comedian MikaL D’Angelo shares conversation, adventure, education and laughs with his wife, Kristine D’Angelo who is a Clinical Sexologist. No topic is off limits with these two. Join them as they begin to normalize conversations about sex, sexuality and relationships.

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S1:E20: Distracted Much?: What's the most common concern I hear from my clients? The feeling of being distracted during sex. In this episode we go off our usual format and just chat about this important topic. Give it a listen if you or your partner get distracted easily... by So I Married A Sexologist
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