S2E6: Somatic Sex and Intimacy Coach Jess DeVries

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S2E6: Somatic Sex and Intimacy Coach Jess DeVries

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39 minutes

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Mar 23, 2022

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What is a somatic sex coach and what do they do? Our guest is Jess DeVries is one and sheds light on what takes place during a session with her and how somatic coaching is a unique modality in the world of sexology.

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Mar 23, 2022

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Comedian MikaL D’Angelo shares conversation, adventure, education and laughs with his wife, Kristine D’Angelo who is a Clinical Sexologist. No topic is off limits with these two. Join them as they begin to normalize conversations about sex, sexuality and relationships.

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S2E6: Somatic Sex and Intimacy Coach Jess DeVries

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