Drugs, Alcohol, and Swinging in the LS. In a recent podcast episode, a couple delves into the significance of communication and trust when handling uncomfortable situations within the lifestyle. They recount a past encounter with a unicorn that left them uneasy, but through open communication, they were able to address the issues. The husband respected his wife's judgment by allowing her to decide whether to address the concerns or move forward. Ultimately, their trust and effective communication led to a successful playdate with the same woman.