Jen Gottlieb lives her life in the pocket. "In the pocket" is how this author and influencer defines being her best, happiest self, and in this episode, we are going to talk about how she does it. Welcome back! With her new book on the horizon, Jen joins Kelly to talk about being seen (also the name of her book, check out the description below to get your copy!) and the joy that can only be found by becoming Harder Than Life. Big takeaways:Jen tells the story of how she thought she'd completely blown her first on-stage speaking gig... only to later save the day with a dance party.If you are struggling with imposter syndrome, try making a Badass List. Jen shares how you can be authentically confident by simply taking inventory of your gifts.Pick-Me Energy: Jen and Kelly talk about why being a "pick-me!" is unattractive under any circumstances... and how to avoid bringing Pick-Me Energy to your life.Show LinksEach and every episode is sponsored by National Technology Management. The easiest and best IT company to do business with. Delivering peace of mind with technology every day. Visit trustntm.com for more info. Until next week, be Harder than Life!Download the HTL App Today!Google Play Store: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.harderthanlifeApple App Store:https://apps.apple.com/us/app/harder-than-life/id6472210352Harder than Life Website: https://www.harderthanlife.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Harder-than-Life-Overcoming-Addiction/dp/1544539126/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2V9ID7MLAX3XX&keywords=harder+than+life+kelly+siegel&qid=1673314631&sprefix=harder+than+life%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1Business Website: https://www.trustntm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelly.siegel.71/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.siegel.71LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDgTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71Guest LinksOrder Jen's book: https://www.amazon.com/BE-SEEN-Voice-Brand-Dream/dp/1401972586/ref=sr_1_1?gclid=CjwKCAjwgZCoBhBnEiwAz35RwrhHcN4EunS0-kA8fsfuOspg8jVREES-JAuQU3lSAlN9_vswA_rT7RoCEs8QAvD_BwE&hvadid=658343692767&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9016859&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=5271146321107675075&hvtargid=kwd-2066609466900&hydadcr=22560_13493318&keywords=be+seen+jen+gottlieb&qid=1694798702&sr=8-1Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jengottliebInstagram: http://instagram.com/jen_gottliebLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jengottliebTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jen_gottlieb?lang=en