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12: From Reactive to Responsive: The Key to Transforming Your Relationship

12: From Reactive to Responsive: The Key to Transforming Your Relationship

FromLove Each Other Better


12: From Reactive to Responsive: The Key to Transforming Your Relationship

FromLove Each Other Better

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Length:
30 minutes
Released:
Jun 7, 2024
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Welcome to today's enlightening episode, "From Reactive to Responsive: The Key to Transforming Your Relationship." There's a timeless quote, often attributed to Viktor Frankl, that encapsulates the essence of our discussion: "Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." Have you ever felt the sting of regret after reacting impulsively to a loved one? Do you yearn for the freedom to respond with calm and clarity instead of reflexively lashing out? You're not alone. Many of us crave the ability to navigate our emotions and interactions more mindfully. In this episode, we'll explore how we can shift from reacting out of habit to responding with intention, especially in the heat of the moment. We'll delve into the profound impact of finding that crucial space between stimulus and response, and how it can transform our relationships and personal growth. We'll draw from the tools of Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to guide us in this transformation. Learn practical steps to slow down, identify your thoughts and feelings, and understand your needs and those of your partner. Discover how to make empowered requests that foster connection and mutual understanding. Join me as I share personal stories (including moments of my own reactivity that led to regret), and discuss the powerful journey towards becoming more responsive. This episode is packed with insights and actionable advice to help you build stronger, more loving relationships. Ready to transform your interactions and embrace a more mindful approach to communication? Tune in and discover the freedom that comes from choosing your response. If this resonates with you and you're eager to stop fighting and start loving better, check out my eight-week private coaching program for couples at www.AliMillerCoaching.com/StopFighting. Spots are limited, so don't wait to apply. Life is short, and love is precious—let's make every moment count. Resources Feelings and Needs Lists: www.AliMillerCoaching.com/feelingsandneeds Stop Fighting! (without stuffing your feelings or sacrificing your needs) 8-Week Private Coaching Program for Couples: www.AliMillerCoaching.com/StopFighting  
Released:
Jun 7, 2024
Format:
Podcast episode

Titles in the series (14)

Did you know that too much conflict and arguing is one of the top 3 reasons couples get divorced? According to Forbes, 58% of divorcing couples cited this as their #1 reason for splitting up. When I read this 2024 statistic, my first thought was: It doesn't have to be this way! Hi, I'm Ali Miller, and I created the Love Each Other Better Podcast to share relationship-saving tools and principles that will help you and your partner spend less time fighting and more time doing what you do best: loving each other. I'm a longtime Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Certified Coach specializing in couples communication and conflict resolution. I've worked with hundreds of couples over the past two decades, helping them work through their challenges and create thriving relationships. On the Love Each Other Better Podcast, I share transformational tools and inspiration from Nonviolent Communication to help couples find their happy again, tools I've only been sharing with my clients and students until now. I am overjoyed to be able to share them with you here on this podcast. Whether you're on the verge of divorce or just a tad bit dissatisfied in your relationship and know it can be so much better, you're in the right place if you want more fun, more ease, and more LOVE in your relationship. I'm so glad you're here.