In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the elusive concept of closure. She passionately dismantles the myth of closure, describing it as a "motherfucking scam" and a fantasy that keeps people stuck in the past. Brianne urges listeners to accept the end of relationships as they are and to move forward without seeking that one final conversation or moment that promises to make everything okay.Brianne shares personal experiences and real-life examples, emphasizing that true closure comes from within. She highlights the importance of letting go and moving on, rather than holding onto the false hope that closure will bring peace. Through her candid and fiery discussion, Brianne offers practical advice on how to achieve self-closure, such as writing unsent letters and focusing on personal growth.This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with the end of a relationship or friendship. It's a powerful reminder that closure is not something to be obtained from others but a gift we give ourselves. Tune in to discover the freedom that comes with letting go and embracing the present and future.#SecretLifePodcast #ClosureMyth #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalWellness #LettingGo #SelfHealing #Relationships #MovingOn #InnerPeace #SelfAcceptance? Episode KeywordsClosure Myth, Personal Growth, Emotional Wellness, Letting Go, Self-Healing, Relationships, Moving On, Inner Peace, Self-Acceptance, Boundaries, Vulnerability, Fantasy vs. Reality(00:00) It doesn't exist. Closure isn't real. Closure is a motherfucking scam(00:23) Welcome to the Secret Life podcast. Tell me your secret, I'll tell you mine(01:00) After twelve years of recovery in sex and love addiction, I finally found my soulmate(01:34) Welcome to Secret Life podcast. I'm Brianne Davis-Gantt(02:05) Today we are talking about magical closure(05:00) The fantasy of closure and why it doesn't exist(08:12) Personal story: Client's struggle with the idea of closure(12:45) Why seeking closure is a power play and a way to hold on(16:30) The importance of self-closure and letting go(20:50) Writing a letter for self-closure(24:10) Final thoughts on moving forward and healing_____If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com______To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com_____SECRET LIFE’S TOPICS INCLUDE:addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, love addiction, OCD, ADHD, dyslexia, eating disorders, debt & money issues, anorexia, depression, shoplifting,  molestation, sexual assault, trauma, relationships, self-love, friendships, community, secrets, self-care, courage, freedom, and happiness._____Create and Host Your Podcast with the same host we use - RedCircle_____Get your copy of SECRET LIFE OF A HOLLYWOOD SEX & LOVE ADDICT -- Secret Life Novel or on Amazon______HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE SHOW?Tell Your Friends & Share Online!Follow, Rate & Review: Apple Podcasts | SpotifyFollow & Listen iHeart | Stitcher | Google Podcasts | Amazon | PandoraSpread the word via social mediaInstagramTwitterFacebook#SecretLifePodcastDonate - You can also support the show with a one-time or monthly donation via PayPal (make payment to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com) or at our WEBSITE.Connect with Brianne Davis-Gantt (@thebriannedavis)Official WebsiteBrianne’s Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterConnect with Mark Gantt (@markgantt)Main WebsiteDirecting WebsiteMark Gantt Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secret-life/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy