People pleasing and odd neighbour behaviour

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People pleasing and odd neighbour behaviour

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Jun 28, 2024

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Many of us want to please those around us, but if we fail to recognise our own needs we can be left feeling burnt out. So how can we meet the needs of others without compromising our own?And in Ask Aunty - a neighbour you like starts copying your choices, should you be flattered or worried?

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Jun 28, 2024

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